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Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Why? I became a good golfer
Golf Notes to myself prior to 1993 tournament
1.play within yourself. slow down
2. relax
3. keep left wrist firm
don’t let right wrist(hand) over left had before impact
Putting
1. normal routine
2. forward press keep left wrist firm but don’t tighten grip
Driver
1. 1 piece swing - everything back together
2. right foot - left foot weight shift
3. inside out
One of the few people who can plan to shoot a very low round is Tiger Woods. I always asked my players, "What is your best score and did you plan to shoot that score?" Without exception, no one ever planned to shoot their best score, it just happened. So I say to you, "plan to hit a "good" shot not a "great" shot. A "good" shot might turn into a "great" shot, but trying to hit a "great" shot can turn into really bad shot. Expect to play well, but don't expect to play "great". Just let it happen and "stay in the moment". "Think ahead to the next shot" but "don't think ahead to what your final score might be". And when all is said and done golf is really not a "good" game, but a "great" game.
why? My Frank Martin signed basketball
I obtained this Frank Martin signed basketball from the Athletic Administration Office in Bramlage Coliseum, Manhattan, Kansas on January 6, 2011. The signature reads: Frank J. Martin
Kurt Heaton(KSU 1964)
And again my daughter purchased this ball for me(it went higher than a Bill Self signed ball) Again thanks so much, my blood runs purple.
Why? My Bill Snyder signed football
I contacted Kansas State Athletic Director John Currie about obtaining a Bill Snyder autographed football for the Topeka Capitals fund raiser silent auction. He directed me to Joan Friederich, Coach Snyder’s longtime administrative assistant.
Arrangements were made and I hand delivered this ball to Coach Snyder’s office on the morning of February 16, 2010. At the time, I requested a “letter of authenticity” from Coach Snyder’s office. I received a phone call from Joan Friederich that afternoon of February 16 that the football had been signed. I asked about the letter of authenticity and here is the direct quote from Coach Snyder relayed to me by Joan. And by the way this is pure coach Snyder. “My signature is good enough and If anyone wants to know they can ask me”. As I am the same age as Coach Snyder I can tell you that he is exactly right. We both come from an era where a “man’s word was his bond”. So Bill Synder’s signature is good enough and I provide my signature to authenticate the signing of this ball. And also, a big thank you to Coach Bill Snyder for his support.
Kurt Heaton, Kansas State 1964.
P.S. My daughter purchased this football for me. thanks so much
Thursday, December 15, 2011
why? an answer to an email
I was delighted to hear from you. While I do not remember your face, I do remember your name very well. I presume you were with at the local high school in Pratt or at the Community College. At age 83 I haven't taught class at ESU since the 1990s, but I am still holding forth at the University as an adjunct professor in a variety of projects and am working on a couple of books which may or may not get done.
I much appreciated your email, which was a real tonic for my day.
Loren Pennington
kurt heaton
Dear Doctor Pennington,
I attended Emporia state in the Summer Of 1968 on a national grant. I began serious pursuit of a Masters Degree in the summer of 1970. You were my advisor and I wanted to relate to you an experience I had in my very first class that summer. I believe It was held in your office. There were 6 or 8 of us there. I was nervous and somewhat unsure of my self. You asked a question and I remember part of my answer, "sort of scientific". A fellow student, quite sure of himself, jumped in and put down my answer. And you did something that affected me for the rest of my teaching career. You defended my answer. Now I suspect that my answer was not that good, but I learned something that day that I applied to my teaching for 38 years. All answers have value. So I just want to thank you for that very small moment. It helped shape my teaching philosophy. Kurt Heaton Emporia 1968-1972- Master Degree Social Science( I know they don't offer this degree any more, but I wanted to have a broad appeal in the Social Science area. I taught Economics and World History for 38 year in Pratt and loved every minute of It.) again, thank you
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
Why? the genius of Bill Snyder
As I have seen the "Miracle in Manhattan" and am seeing it for a second time I realize the Bill Snyder has a huge mind. It is compartmentalized and the attention to "detail" is enormous. He has taken good players and made them into great players. His ability to judge the "upside" of players and to make the "upside" a reality is the genius at work.
Snyder is known for his work ethic. He is really and this will sound strange, the equivalent of two, yes two geniuses: 18 hour days. burning the "midnight oil", bringing it all together and keeping it all together, planning it all, adding to the play scheme, finding just the right piece of the puzzle in a Junior College setting, building confidence, creating a "family atmosphere".
I talked to a football recruit who told me that Coach Bill Snyder simply asked him "what do you want to be?". He had never been asked that before and under Snyder, "what do you want to be? "involves more than football, it involves everything in life".
Sunday, October 2, 2011
Why? expansion
Friday, September 9, 2011
Why? the most important things in one page
Kurt Heaton
Favorite quote, poem and philosophy
Robert Kennedy quote
"Few will have the greatness to bend history; but each of us can work to change a small portion of the events, and in the total of all these acts will be written the history of this generation...It is from numberless diverse acts of courage and belief that human history is thus shaped. Each time a man stands up for an ideal, or acts to improve the lot of others, or strikes out against injustice, he sends forth a tiny ripple of hope, and crossing each other from a million different centers of energy and daring those ripples build a current which can sweep down the mightiest walls of oppression and resistance."
Poem
Mary Elizabeth Frye
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond’s glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the autumn’s gentle rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die.
Kurt Heaton Philosophy
Let me remind you of my personal philosophy -"you may beat me, but I am not beaten. I cannot be defeated or beaten by anything or anyone. I will never,ever give in or give up. Even in death I am not defeated".
Remember, "We are what we believe". "We are what we think". If you want to think misery,fear, sadness, depression, that is the person you will be. I choose to lift myself up, not down and so should you.
With love and forgiveness to all and I ask the same from you. Kurt
Sunday, August 28, 2011
Why? Ability and effort
Now we come to this fall and Washburn Rural seventh grade football. They had 80 some boys out for the team. They would have an A and B team . They had a lot of big, athletic kids out and my grandson, weighing 98 pound was one of the smallest. He had not played any football for a year.
The team has many players from feeder teams, boys who have played tackle football for 4 years. Now having spent 38 years in coaching allowed me to advise my grandson of one distinct thing. In order to make the team, "you have to be noticed". Run faster, hit harder and play harder than anyone else." Now it should be said that my grandson is a gifted athlete, fast, quick, and not afraid to hit. He was one of the smallest players on the team but now he is the smallest player on the A team. He was picked as a slot back on the A team and was the starting safety in the first game(they won 24-0). Washburn Rural is one of the biggest schools in the state, average class size of 400 plus. The odds of making a team are small and this was a tremendous accomplishment. We are very proud. You need to understand that my advise carries over to all of life. The world is a tough place, and sports help players to understand what is needed to be successful. In a sense for all of your life, you need to "run faster, hit harder and play harder than anyone else". It is a life lesson.
Monday, August 8, 2011
Why? Things that are Bigger Than Me?
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Why? Party before nation
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Why? Would somebody lie
Saturday, April 23, 2011
Why? How do you handle some one bullying your child
Now my grandson, age 12, has been through a lot in the past few years. The most difficult thing was finding his father dead on the bedroom floor 4 years ago. He and his little brother, age 3, and his mother found him after coming home from work, school and daycare. My son-in-law had been sick for a week, refused to go to the doctor and died from an enlarged heart and pneumonia. What a shock. As a result my wife and I have been helping to raise the boys. To keep them busy and help them get on with life, one or the other or both have been in flag football, football, basketball, baseball, t-ball, swimming.
A year ago my grandson broke his arm at basketball camp (he was also playing baseball). He continued playing baseball with a cast on his arm and within three weeks, started a game at 2nd base. He later rebroke the arm at the Wold Series. He went into football wearing a cast and did some drills and lots of running. His knee began to bother him, but he continued running. After his arm was being x-rayed to see healing progress, we asked to the doctor to examine his knee. An x-ray showed a suspicious spot and we were sent to a specialist at Children's Mercy in Kansas City. The end result was a fragmented area of the epiphysis (growth plate area). This is a serious injury.
My grandson had missed 4 weeks of baseball and now all of football. He was put in a full leg cast and was on crutches for 4 weeks and then put in a walking cast. After 3 weeks of physical therapy, he was cleared the day before Christmas to play sports. He played basketball for 4 weeks and then went down hill. He was first diagnosed with Mono and walking pneumonia. Later on in a further test they found it was not mono. He continued to go downhill. He lost 10 pounds (100 down to 90 lbs), nauseated every morning, not eating, and finally said he didn't want to go to schooL and FINALLY HE TOLD US WHY. HE WAS BEING BULLIED AT SCHOOL BY THE SAME BOY WHO HIT HIM LAST YEAR.
Now, what to do? It was apparent that going to the parent had done no good.
We contacted the school and they were great. They were all over it. Teachers were informed. The bully was stopped. Now I will say the bullying was mostly name calling, put downs, that kind of thing. A little shoving, but no hitting. The end result was, we thought, that the issue was settled.
My grandson came home 2 days ago and said the bully had punched him in the mouth (splitting his lip). Well, we informed the school and they took action.
Last night the bully’s father came to our door very angry and accusing my grandson of lying about the incident. And said “I’m going to the superintendent and prove your grandson is the problem.” I said “do what you have to do”.
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Friday, April 15, 2011
Why? facing possible demise
NOTIFY
Doctor or hospice nurse
Coroner
Funeral Home
Clergy
Relatives and friends (list with phone numbers)
Social Security Office Social Security Number – xxx-xx-xxxx
Employee Retirement System
Life Insurance
long term care
auto insurance
monthly payments
memberships
Location Of Will
Executor of Will
Banking with password
checking accounts
savings accounts
CD”s
Credit Card Information
Investment information
Funeral Decisions
Cemetery
Gravestone inscription
Obituary
The nurse pulled up the ct scan on the computer and said, "I shouldn't tell but it's kidney stones" And I was happy. Ultrasound surgery is in a week, for a large stone that is threatening the urethra. When you get to be 70, you know life is short and you are grateful for life and know it can end at any moment.